Hey there, this unfortunately is a bug that isn't exclusive to only starters. If relogging and leveling up the pokemon doesn't work, you can open a ticket in the discord server where a staff member can help you out :)
Is this still an issue? If so I highly suggest opening a ticket in the discord so a staff member can walk through it with you and potentially find a solution :)
A good idea would be to send the screenshot to staff members via a ticket in the discord so they can handle it appropriately. Calling other people offensive names like that is definitely not allowed
Hey there,
The mega ring option should automatically pop up after you beat your first mega boss. You can check if you received it by going into your inventory, clicking the arrow button next to your party and then selecting the megastone icon.
Hey there,
The ruby server was reset recently on the 26th of December 2021 which would explain why everything was gone. You should still have access to the rank you purchased and all the perks that come with that however everything else would have been wiped